The Trouble with Truth

I woke up with a phrase in my head: "The trouble with truth." I hadn’t been reading it. I hadn’t heard it on a podcast. It simply arrived, uninvited but insistent. And like many truths I’ve encountered over the years, it didn’t come gently.

It came, instead, with weight. The kind of weight that says, “This one matters.”

You see, I’ve lived a life shaped by uncomfortable change. Not just disruption, but painful, sometimes disorienting transformation. The kind you don’t choose, but must learn to live through. Over time, I’ve developed a higher-than-average tolerance for reality—because I’ve had to. The truth has often been my only companion when clarity felt elusive.

And yet, I’ve noticed something peculiar, particularly in the British context: truth isn’t always welcome. In fact, in many rooms—especially professional ones—truth is the thing most carefully avoided.

British culture has a long and complicated relationship with discomfort. We pride ourselves on politeness. On measured responses. On not making a fuss. We’re masters of euphemism, understatement, and ironic distance. But underneath all that civility lies a quiet unease—particularly when truth starts to speak plainly.

In business settings, I’ve seen it often. A room full of professionals will agree something needs to change, but no one wants to be the one to say exactly what. We use safe words. We talk about optimisation, streamlining, reimagining—anything but the raw, simple, often uncomfortable truth.
Truth like:

• Our message no longer resonates.
• We’ve outgrown our ideal clients.
• The brand isn’t aligned with who we really are anymore.

These truths aren’t criticisms. They’re invitations. But they rarely feel that way in rooms where the culture teaches us to avoid the sharp edges of clarity.

In my work—whether with entrepreneurs, creatives, or early-stage founders—I’ve come to understand that many business frustrations aren’t due to lack of effort. They come from avoidance. We avoid looking too closely. We avoid naming what’s misaligned. We avoid recalibrating, because recalibration starts with admitting something no longer fits.

Over time, I created a structure to help gently navigate these realisations. It’s called C.L.E.A.R.worx™.

Not a system to fix people. Not a gimmick. Just a gentle guide to help people pause, think, and reconnect with what matters. With what’s true.

Clarity. Language. Execution. Attraction. Results.

It helps people create forward momentum—built from truth, not noise.

Shih-Hsiang, a dedicated massage therapist, needed to articulate the depth of his professional skill across his marketing collateral. His challenge was helping potential clients understand that his service wasn’t just relaxing—it was grounded in scientific, therapeutic value. By working through the C.L.E.A.R.worx™ framework, he was able to clarify this message and position his work as evidence-based and results-driven. This not only helped clients better value his treatments but also laid the groundwork for developing a training programme in parts of Asia where scientifically informed therapy remains underrepresented.

And so I return to the phrase that found me: "The trouble with truth."

The trouble with truth is that it demands something of us. It interrupts. It reveals. It won’t let us keep pretending everything’s fine when it’s not. But here’s what I’ve learned: Truth is also a kindness.

It clears the fog. It invites alignment. It creates the possibility of building something lasting—not just something that looks good on a pitch deck.

In business, as in life, truth is rarely the easiest guest at the table. But it’s the one that stays after the others have left, helping you clean up the mess and start again—this time, from solid ground.

If you’ve been dancing around a truth in your business—or in yourself—I invite you to stop, breathe, and face it. Not with fear. With curiosity.

You might be surprised how much lighter things feel on the other side of honesty.

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By Phil Avery ACIM
Future Point 4 Business | Founder

For more than 15 years, we’ve supported businesses across the UK, the EU, Africa, and Asia in shaping, refining, and strengthening their brands—strategically, visually, and commercially.
Whether you’re starting from scratch or improving what already exists, we help you gain clarity, sharpen your message, ​and align your brand for sustainable growth.